Siblings Group: Supporting the Brothers and Sisters of Children with Illness

On the occasion of World Siblings Day on 10 April, the Siblings Group was present in the main hall of the Children’s Hospital (HUDERF) to raise awareness among parents and healthcare professionals of the importance of not overlooking the brothers and sisters of children with illness.

In the afternoon, time was dedicated to families, with a workshop and sharing session organised at the Robert Dubois School.

Not forgetting brothers and sisters

When a child is ill, attention quite naturally focuses on them. Yet their brothers and sisters also experience strong emotions: worry, jealousy, guilt and a sense of being left aside.

This day provided an opportunity to highlight the importance of supporting them, recognising their place, and ensuring they are not left alone with what they are going through.

A crucial balance was emphasised:

• giving them a place within the care pathway,
• without placing too much responsibility on them, especially when parents are heavily mobilised.

Talking to them, listening to them, valuing them… without making them “grow up too quickly”.

A hospital committed to the whole family

Through this initiative, the Children’s Hospital reaffirmed its commitment to a care approach that focuses on the entire family, including siblings.

Psychologists are available in every department and can support children, their brothers and sisters, as well as parents.

Parents were encouraged to share their concerns and ask questions.
Healthcare professionals were invited to remain attentive to these situations and to open dialogue with families.

The care team remains a key point of contact:
doctors, nurses and staff can guide families towards appropriate support.

Appointments can be arranged on request, depending on each family’s needs.

A holistic approach to care

Through this mobilisation, the Children’s Hospital conveyed a strong message:
caring for a child also means caring for their brothers and sisters.

As every member of the family is affected by illness, it is essential to provide a comprehensive, attentive and compassionate approach.

Not forgetting siblings also contributes to the balance and well-being of the whole family.

More information: sylvie [dot] vankerckhove [at] hubruxelles [dot] be (envoyer un mail)  

Frères et soeurs d’un enfant malade | Hôpital Universitaire des Enfants Reine Fabiola

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